It is absolutely insane how clearly you can articulate your thoughts. So much clarity. (To which I also mean Ur a Great Writer!, per your last post I just read on clarity and competence haha)
I love this. I’ve been thinking often about this topic in a parallel way — thinking about how we convince ourselves of truths that inevitably alter our lives, sometimes in a direction that we aren’t happy with, especially through self sabotage but also in what could just be seen as “normal” beliefs. But what I get stuck on is how do I find out what these “open secrets” are? Because at least for myself, I know I have so many that are influencing my decisions & contributing to unhappiness, but I don’t know how to find them.
mm. this mf spitting
a joy to read, but also why do i feel called out
Fantastic piece and glittering yet lucid writing. Lovely!
It is absolutely insane how clearly you can articulate your thoughts. So much clarity. (To which I also mean Ur a Great Writer!, per your last post I just read on clarity and competence haha)
I love this. I’ve been thinking often about this topic in a parallel way — thinking about how we convince ourselves of truths that inevitably alter our lives, sometimes in a direction that we aren’t happy with, especially through self sabotage but also in what could just be seen as “normal” beliefs. But what I get stuck on is how do I find out what these “open secrets” are? Because at least for myself, I know I have so many that are influencing my decisions & contributing to unhappiness, but I don’t know how to find them.
The people closest to you almost always know! I'd ask anyone who's known you for a long time and seen you through highs and lows.
I appreciate that! I will do this 💓 thank you!
Lovely